Cornish, Maine Boudoir Studio // The Power of Prep: Why Getting Ready is Where the Boudoir Transformation Starts

Listen, I know it feels like the boudoir session starts when you show up to the studio with your bag of outfits and a stomach full of nerves—but I’m here to tell you the transformation starts way earlier than that.

It starts the moment you say yes to yourself.

And then... it gets a little bit dangerous (for your bank account) in the best way.

Buying the Damn Outfit is Step One

This is not just a shopping trip. This is you saying, “I deserve to feel like a queen.” It’s not about impressing anyone else—it’s about dressing for the version of you that’s been waiting to feel seen.

Buy the lingerie. Get properly fitted for a bra (seriously, it’ll change your life). Order that spicy little number that makes you feel like you run a secret underground society of powerful women. Snag the robe. Get the shoes. Try on five outfits and strut in the mirror like you’re doing a walk-off with yourself.

Get the Nails Done. Yes, Both Sets.

Pedicures aren’t just for summer toes. They’re for you. It’s part of showing up fully, knowing every detail—even the ones that might not make it into the final image—got love and attention.

Hands are just as important. Want that bold red nail moment? Go for it. Feeling like moody black claws? Obsessed. Whatever your vibe is, just make sure you feel put-together and pampered.

Hair & Makeup Isn’t Just Glam—It’s Power Armor

My hair and makeup artists don’t just paint faces—they summon alter egos. Start thinking about what version of you you want to bring to the shoot.

- Soft and sultry?

- Retro bombshell?

- Glam-rock siren with a middle finger for the patriarchy?

Whatever you want, that’s who we’ll summon. And when you sit in the chair, you're not just getting pretty—you’re putting on your damn war paint.

Now Let’s Talk Skin: Dewy, Glowy, Main-Character Energy

Your skin wants to be invited to the prep party too. Hydrate like your session is sponsored by a fancy water brand. Moisturize like your life depends on it. Maybe even treat yourself to a facial a few days before your shoot (because nothing screams “I love myself” like having a stranger gently exfoliate your soul).

Dry patches and flaky lips? Not on our watch. Lather up, drink up, and glow up.

Prepping is the First Big “Hell Yes” to Yourself

All of this—shopping, self-care, visualizing your session—isn’t fluff. It’s not extra. It’s essential.

It’s the part where you stop putting yourself last.

It’s the part where you remember how fun it is to love on yourself a little.

It’s where the empowerment actually starts.

So yeah, when you’re standing in the dressing room half-naked trying to decide between black lace or emerald green satin—just know: you’re already doing the work. You’re already stepping into the version of you who deserves to be celebrated.